Men have been taking care of "business" since the dawn of time, and many have devised strategies to enhance the experience -- somewhat. Without discussing the basics -- the Basic Fist and Basic Thumb and Forefinger, which no doubt you are all well aware of -- let’s delve into some more "advanced" masturbation techniques.
It has to be noted that many men may find it easier, faster and more effective to masturbate instead of putting in the time and effort to enhance their sexual relationship with their lover. Masturbation, however, should not replace a healthy sex life with a partner -- to do so is to lose out on the intimacy of closeness, and the effort and reward of a mutually beneficial relationship.
Studies show that, chemically, masturbating is 400 times less effective at satisfying ones sexual appetite than sex with a partner. Nonetheless, masturbating is certainly a favorite and pleasant pastime of men and women alike, and is a great way to enjoy and learn about yourself.
There are many ways to get yourself off, and with Male Appreciation Day in mind, here are some masturbation techniques you may not have played around with just yet.
Pelvic thrust with wristThis masturbation technique utilizes the wrist and hand simultaneously.
Self-love guide: Lubricate your hand and your wrist. With your fingers facing your perineum, grip your penis from the front (with your thumb in your pubic hair. Kneel on a bed or the floor and thrust into your hand and along the wrist so your wrist rubs against the underside head of your penis.
Deep scrotum massageThe testicles are often left out while masturbating, but this masturbation technique gives you the tools to maximize this sensitive and sensual zone.
Self-love guide: Lubricate your penis and scrotum. With your hand grasping your penis, point your index finger toward your scrotum. Your thumb and forefinger should be closest to your body. Allow your thumb and forefinger to slide down as far as they can go in a stroke toward the scrotum. Your other hand is now free to do what you will with your testicles -- be it a deep massage, tickle, etc.
WringingDon’t let the old washerwoman into your head. Squeeze a bit more fun out of your manhood with this stellar masturbation technique.
Self-love guide: Lubricate your penis. Using both hands, one at the bottom and one at the top of the penis, gently wring in opposite directions. Use the motion from bottom to top as if you were wringing out a cloth -- squeeze the semen out, not in.
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Butt spreadThis one sounds a bit weirder than it really is, so give us a chance here. This masturbation technique may not be for everyone, but it's worth giving it a shot just to find out if it does the trick for you.
Self-love guide: Lubrication is optional -- as you like. On a comfortable surface (bed), sit on your heels with each heel gently spreading your butt cheeks (comfortably, don't overstretch as you may cause yourself pain instead of pleasure). Masturbate as you wish, using any of the above techniques or with your usual method. When you are about to ejaculate, spread your cheeks and feel the deep orgasm stem from your perineum. (There is a pressure point in the center of your perineum that creates more intense orgasms). This masturbation technique can be quite intense.
MilkingWhy did the cow wear a bell around her neck? Because her horn didn't work. Fortunately, yours does!
Self-love guide: Lubricate your penis. Sitting in a relaxed position, using both hands one at a time, squeeze and pull up the length of your penis and over the top. If you've got extra skin (read: uncircumcised) you can also pull the extra skin up and over the head of the penis when you pull up. Repeat as necessary, and as slowly or quickly as you like.
get the "hand" job done rightMaking hot love to yourself is a wonderful experience, and new masturbation techniques should always be experimented with -- who knows, you may be missing out on some serious pleasure. Practice new techniques with care, and don’t forget that practice makes perfect -- not all of these will end brilliantly straight away.
Male Appreciation Day is a wonderful opportunity to love yourself and your inherent manliness by showing yourself all due respect, and trying out something new.
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